Look Who's Talking
Saturday, July 21, 2007 12:30 PM

Sometimes I really wonder, why do trouble always come knocking on your door when you always try to mind your own business?

I received a phone call yesterday from a friend. The story outline is like this: Someone got herself pregnant and confided in others whom she shoudn't have confided. Know what? The word unglam was used by the person you have confided in. Doesn't she know she wasn't as popular and 'good friend' to those people like she thought she is? Well, good luck! Don't blame others from talking and sharing it when you decided to tell them about your little issue here. And don't leave a single trace on your MSN that can let people talk about it.

You have not shown even a slightest gratitude when you gained help in ways like getting into a job that have provided you things you could never have easily gotten. But yet, blaming others from showing authority when being asked about your movement (which is even not that case!), going around telling others how high your targets are and how much you are doing being new in the company. Don't compare! You get good results, I salute you. But mind you, what's the percentage of your clientele were given accounts?

So.. don't go around calling others bitch when you, yourself, are one. It doesn't mean others don't speak up and shoot it back at you, they don't know how much bad-mouthing you have done. The people you have hurt in this way just chose to be nonchalant about your misdoings.

Anyway, hate me all you want. I am just ranting here in my own blog. Like the saying goes...

Never explain yourself to anyone. Because the person who likes you doesn't need it and the person who dislikes you won't believe it.


Shania